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Caspar Babypants. Raising kids and finding yourself.

Caspar Babypants is an adored Seattle-based musician and a songwriter. Previously known as the lead singer of The Presidents of the USA, he now brings joy to families around town with his whimsical music that is loved by both kids and parents. In this interview, Chris shares his life story, how he came to be known as Caspar, and what lessons he learned…

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  1. Chris always knew that he wanted to make music, and the type of music that matched his personality. He didn't want to maybe put on a costume for anybody. Full answer

  2. Caspar was Chri's nickname while performing with Mark Sandman and a band called Morphine in the 1990s. Full answer

  3. Caspar wants his music to be playful and stress-free for parents and to help them share a moment of ridiculousness and joy with their kid. Full answer

  4. Chris knew that The Presidents was not the gig he wanted, the the allure of TMV and cheering fans was pulling him in. Full answer

  5. As a couple, you want to get to a point where you are neutralized and are no longer making an emotional decision. Full answer

  6. Stick to the facts and explain that although mom and dad are no longer loving each other in a way they need to stay together, they will always be there as… Full answer

  7. Caspar says both. Marry Lynn, Chris's first wife, was the one who wrote "Run baby run" to keep their kid occupied and happy in the car. Full answer

  8. Ask yourself - How do you feel? Do you feel relaxed around this person? Do you feel like you can be yourself? Full answer

  9. Starting anything is easy, but once you start, there is going to be a lot of work required to achieve any kind of success. Full answer

  10. Everyone has problems, and whatever you end up doing, it's never just smooth sailing. Full answer

  11. Not a single thing. Caspar Babypants is very proud of the fact that there's no educational value in his music. Full answer

  12. Caspar Babypants records music in his home, and burns his songs on the old-school CDs, costing a grand total of $4 to product an entire album. Full answer

  13. The car. The car is great because you have their attention, but you are not looking at each other. Full answer

  14. Chris compares it to the similar chemical reaction to when a person falls in love. Full answer

  15. If you have strong feelings toward your profession or you are feel external pressure to have kids but you are not sure, don't do it. Full answer

  16. In case when a mom is a primary parent that is responsible for kids and a dad is the one making an income, the dad could be seen as the "fun" parent, one that… Full answer

  17. Read the book, How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk , by Elaine Mazlish and Adele Faber. It’s a parenting book about language and empathy. Full answer

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