Dr. Nicole LePera on Relationships, Boundaries, and Childhood Trauma

“Consciousness is where we are granted choice.”

QUESTIONS

How are you growing faster than other therapist brands? (1:28)

How do we change a feeling of powerlessness? (7:25)

What’s the greatest trauma people face? (17:24)

What’s the level a child or the parent traumatizes the other? (19:23)

How do we come to a place of worthiness? (29:00)

What is the best practice on observing self thoughts? (37:13)

What’s your biggest trigger? (39:13)

How do we forgive our parents, even if they were doing the best they can? (43:20)

How do we say no without apologizing? (49:30)

How do you speak to a child that has a chaotic reality and has not observed their own thoughts? (1:01:30)

What’s your biggest fear as a therapist? (1:07:32)

YOU WILL LEARN

The issue with always thinking about what to do next (5:30)

How to develop a consistency in practice in consciousness of action (9:45)

The top tools for your healing journey (16:25)

Why meditation is key to tuning in to our internal world (24:30)

What to do when we get stuck in our familiarized comfort zone (27:50)

How the practice of self observation removes focus without judgment (29:30)

Why we must change our expectations (41:21)

Why we find a way to keep connections with other humans (51:32)

Great ways to say no without apologizing or explaining yourself (56:25)

The importance of going inward and connecting with ourselves everyday (1:07:10)

LINKS MENTIONED

The Body Keeps the Score

Virtual Self Healer Circle Membership

Brain on Fire by Susannah Cahalan

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