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What’s Diana Chapman’s Advice to James Bershara and His Wife During a Challenging Time · Below the Line with James Beshara

Below the Line with James Beshara

#12 — Diana Chapman — Coaching Towards Consciousness

Diana Chapman is a best-selling author — her book “the 15 commitments of conscious leadership” is one of my all-time favorites — She is also an advisor and executive coach who has worked with over 1,000 organizational leaders, as well as a founding partner of Concious Leadership Group. Her incredibly powerful book has a great subtitle — “A new paradigm for…

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  1. What Are Enneagrams at 3:09

    The origin of enneagrams are unknown, but they are at least 3,000 years old or older. The models are found in Egyptian tombs and in old sites. Full answer

  2. What Is Each Category of the Enneagram Called at 10:52

    There are 9 types. Full answer

  3. Are Enneagram Types More Genetic Than Learned? at 21:20

    There isn’t a lot of science behind enneagrams right now, so it’s not known for sure. Full answer

  4. What’s One Similarity Between All Enneagram Types at 27:37

    We all want the connection as humans. Enneagrams tell us what stands between us and connections. Ego in reactivity is an enemy to connection. Full answer

  5. What Does the Enneagram Model Show Us at 30:00

    It shows that in any given moment, you are above the line— in the state of trust— or below the line, in a state of threat. Full answer

  6. What’s Diana Chapman’s Advice to James Bershara and His Wife During a Challenging Time at 42:37

    This can also be applied to everyone, but you should allow both feelings in a state of trust where you can laugh and grieve at the same time. Full answer

  7. What Is One Thing That Creates Such Exhaustion and Burnout at 50:34

    People’s unwillingness and unknowingness to feel their feelings and speak the unspoken words. Full answer

  8. What Are the Five Core Feelings and How Do They Connect at 1:03:47

    Sad, scared, angry, joyful, and sexual are the core feelings. Combined, they make up a bunch of other feelings. Full answer

  9. How Can You Turn Away Feelings of Discouragement at 1:09:51

    Instead, ask yourself, "How true is this discouragement?” It’s important to constantly get your mind at a neutral state. Full answer

  10. Why Do Some Companies Fail at 1:21:28

    65% of companies fail with cofounders because of the failure to have a relationship between the cofounder and the company. Full answer

  11. What Are Three Stories That Have Shaped Diana Chapman at 1:22:44

    Her brother-in-law inspired her by how he was a conscious leader by how he treated people. Another is when her company was sued during the past year. Full answer

  12. What’s a Big Concern of Diana Chapman Has That She Doesn’t Get to Talk About a Lot at 1:32:09

    The heartbreak of seeing people being disconnected from nature. It's of man wanting to manage and control nature. Full answer

  13. In 2019, Is There a Pattern in the Enneagram That Makes for a Better Leader at 1:38:10

    No, Diana doesn’t not believe so. She thinks all of them are equally valuable, and believes that nobody wins unless everybody wins. Full answer

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