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How Should Parents Provide Feedback for Children
Remember the 3 "Cs" of feedback: compliments, comments, and constructive criticism.
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- How Should Mayhem-type Behavior Be HandledUtilize 3 "R's" of restorative practice: restitution, resolution, and reconciliation.
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- How Can Situations That Are Mean and Cruel Be Dealt WithThe target must be safe, a witness must be safe, and then the child doing the mean and cruel activity must be dealt with even if that means delayed justice.
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