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Why Won't Reading Self-help Change Your Life?

Spencer Greenberg says the least sexy, highest-impact part of self-help is that you cannot just learn techniques. You have to sit down, make time, and do them. Many people read self-improvement books and do nothing differently afterward. Reading will not change your life until you put the ideas into action.

Chris Williamson says it is better to read one chapter and then go away, or to follow a single strategy. Atomic Habits and Tiny Habits keep you on one track, so you are still doing a thing while you learn how habits happen. Chris Williamson contrasts that with a 500-page collection of disparate protocols. He says reading the material is not doing the work, and reading can hand you a simulacrum of progress. Until you practice long enough for the work to land, it will not have an impact on your life.

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The Only 12 Lessons Buried In Every Self-Help Book - Spencer Greenberg - #1161 ·

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