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What Does Connecting With Kids Mean for Dr. Laura Markham?
Connection is the second of Markham's three keys, after a parent regulates their own emotions. She tells Shane Parrish it is a relationship, not a method, and that it is not a different job for mothers than for fathers. Attachment research, she says, shows that by 14 months a baby has already decided whether each important adult will comfort them, allow anger and the rest of their feelings, and still meet their needs. Children revise that picture if the adult changes. A grandparent, a nanny, or a teacher who stays in their life gives them more than one model. A fight about a birthday party is often a fight about values built on those early bonds.
The Knowledge Project with Shane Parrish
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Peaceful Parenting
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On this episode
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- What Are Dr. Laura Markham's Three Keys to Parenting? Transcript
- How Do Parents Learn to Regulate Their Emotions Transcript
- How Are Thoughts and Feelings Related Transcript
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- What Does Connecting With Kids Mean for Dr. Laura Markham? Transcript
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- What Does Coaching vs. Punishing Kids Mean Transcript
- How Do Children Learn to Manage Their Emotions Transcript
- How Do Many Adults Approach Emotions Transcript
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